Restore Desire. Rebuild Intimacy. Feel Alive Again.
I help couples and individuals restore desire, intimacy, and connection —
not by forcing closeness, or fixing communication, but by repairing emotional safety, attachment wounds, and the relational nervous system.
When Life Works — But Connection Doesn’t
You might look “fine” from the outside — successful, capable, doing what needs to be done —but inside, something feels off.
✔ Desire has faded quietly, or sex feels pressured, avoidant, or disconnected
✔ Emotional closeness feels harder to access, even when you care deeply
✔ Past betrayals or trust ruptures were addressed, but not fully healed
✔ Conversations stay practical, not intimate
✔ You feel lonely- In a relationship or within yourself
✔ Burnout has taken over — leaving little energy for connection, pleasure, or presence
✔ Anxiety lives just beneath the surface, making it hard to relax
✔ Unresolved trust ruptures or relational wounds still shape how close you can get
Whether you’re navigating this in a partnership or within your own inner world, this kind of disconnection can feel confusing when effort hasn’t led to the closeness or sense of ease you hoped for. Often, it’s not a lack of effort, but missing emotional safety and nervous system support that makes connection hard to sustain.
A depth-oriented approach to restoring emotional safety, desire, and connection — within yourself and in your relationships.
Invest in your relationship with yourself
So many of us learned to prioritize others, perform, or stay emotionally guarded in order to feel safe. Over time, this can lead to disconnection from ourselves — and from our capacity for intimacy and desire.
This work begins by repairing emotional safety within, so you can feel grounded, present, and more fully yourself in relationship.
Improve your relationship with others
Desire doesn’t disappear without reason. It often fades when connection becomes transactional, pressured, or emotionally unsafe.
This work helps restore erotic aliveness by addressing attachment patterns, power dynamics, and the places where intimacy became effortful instead of alive.
Strengthen your relationship foundation
When the nervous system is overwhelmed or stuck in protection, intimacy becomes hard to access — even when love is present.
This work supports nervous system regulation so connection feels safer, conflict feels less destabilizing, and closeness becomes sustainable rather than draining.
Who I Work With?
✔ Feeling emotionally or sexually disconnected
✔ Navigating desire, trust, power dynamics, or intimacy across relational structures
✔ Experiencing relational burnout, overwhelm, or emotional fatigue that makes closeness harder to access
✔ Wanting depth, clarity, and connection, not surface fixes or constant effort
✔ Healing attachment wounds, building emotional safety, and reconnecting to self
✔ Feeling burned out, anxious, or overwhelmed from holding everything together for too long
✔ Wanting to reconnect with desire, boundaries, and a felt sense of self
✔ Exploring intimacy and relationship patterns from the inside out
You may be:
In a relationship that looks solid on the outside but feels emotionally or sexually disconnected
An individual doing deep internal work to heal attachment wounds, rebuild safety, and feel more alive in your relationships
Someone who has insight, self-awareness, and competence — yet still feels stuck in familiar relational patterns
Ready to move beyond coping and toward meaningful, embodied change
This work is especially supportive for those navigating intimacy, desire, identity, power dynamics, trauma history, or relational overwhelm — whether that work happens within yourself, with a partner, or both.
HOW I SUPPORT MEANINGFUL CHANGE:
Personalized, Depth-Oriented Care
My approach is not one-size-fits-all.
I offer personalized care that integrates:
Trauma-informed therapy that prioritizes emotional and nervous-system safety
Strength-based work that builds on your existing resilience, insight, and capacity
Evidence-based practices grounded in attachment theory, relational neuroscience, and somatic awareness
Rather than focusing on what’s “wrong,” we work with what’s already present — strengthening your ability to heal, connect, and live fully.
INCLUSIVE & AFFIRMING SPACE
You Are Welcome Here
I’m committed to fostering an environment where everyone feels respected, understood, and met with care.
I offer an affirming, non-judgmental space for individuals and couples across identities and lived experiences, including:
LGBTQIA+ individuals and relationships
BIPOC clients navigating cultural, relational, and systemic stressors
BDSM/Kink-affirming work that honors consent, agency, and relational nuance
You do not need to educate me, justify your identity, or minimize your experience to belong here.
If you have questions about my LGBTQIA+, BIPOC, or BDSM/Kink-affirming approach, you’re always welcome to reach out. I want you to feel supported and informed as you consider this work.
This is a space where curiosity is met with compassion, and where we move at a pace that honors your safety and trust — without losing sight of meaningful change.
What Becomes Possible
When emotional safety and the relational nervous system are repaired, real change becomes sustainable, more natural, and supported— because you’re no longer doing the work alone or against yourself.
Through this work, many clients experience:
A nervous system that finally gets to rest
Less chronic anxiety, fewer spirals, and a felt sense of steadiness — instead of always bracing, overthinking, or holding everything together.
Relief from burnout and emotional exhaustion
You stop carrying the relationship, the family, or yourself alone. Energy returns when survival mode quiets.Desire that feels natural again — not pressured or performative
Sex becomes something you want, not something you manage, avoid, or push through. Intimacy feels chosen, embodied, and alive.Emotional closeness without walking on eggshells
You can be honest, vulnerable, and fully yourself without fear of conflict, shutdown, or withdrawal.Sex that feels connected, safe, and meaningful
Whether partnered or solo, your relationship to sexuality becomes less tense, less avoidant, and more integrated with who you are.Greater confidence and self-trust
You learn to listen to your body, emotions, and boundaries — and to act from clarity rather than anxiety or obligation.A relationship — with yourself or your partner — that feels like a refuge
Not another source of stress, but a place where you can land, reconnect, and feel supported.
This work isn’t about fixing what’s broken. It’s about creating the conditions where safety, connection, and desire can be explored and defined in a way that’s true for you.
Begin the Work That Changes Your Relationship — With Yourself and Others.
Schedule your free consultation
There’s no commitment, pressure, or obligation.